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Do you guys think that marriages should be entered by contract like you do with jobs sometimes?

"Okay, I'm going to marry you for 6 months, and if it doesn't work out after that, we can scrap it. No divorce necessary."

I heard this argument put forth today that this method might be "better" that "shackling" yourself to one person for the rest of your life, or having to worry about a divorce.

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Marriage aside, isn't that how normal relationships work?
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why get married if you are gonna have doubts about it. Because that's basically what setting up a contract means. You have doubts it will work out because you don't want to get screwed somehow.
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^^ Totally agree. If you are getting married for the right reasons, LOVE, then there will be no doubt. If there are doubts marriage is not the answer. Or better said "Dont get married, your not ready."
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Divorce is necessary. Even after a contract of a year or less there would still be mutual property to evenly distribute.

When I finally got into a place in my life where I considered my self ready for marriage I began looking for a partner for life.....not 6 months. I stopped looking at relationships in such a short time frame shortly after high school.

Simply put. If you're not ready to commit, then don't commit at all.
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Divorce is necessary. Even after a contract of a year or less there would still be mutual property to evenly distribute.

When I finally got into a place in my life where I considered my self ready for marriage I began looking for a partner for life.....not 6 months. I stopped looking at relationships in such a short time frame shortly after high school.

Simply put. If you're not ready to commit, then don't commit at all.

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What's this got to do with the contract?

Being ready to commit is all well and good... but it really says nothing about what's going in your partner's head at any point in time.

Break-ups aren't generally agreed on by both parties.

One person says "it's over", and it is.
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Marriage should be different. It isnt always, but the real meaning behind marriage says nothing about divorce. Its sad that most marriages will end up in divorce so thinking about a pre nup/ contract of sorts is not a bad idea nowadays. I think what was meant before was that if you think you need a contract are you really ready to spend your life with that other person. Technically you shouldnt need a contract.
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