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Interesting topic of discussion today amongst some folks:

Do you believe that your Significant Other also has to be your best friend?

This is the person you've decided to share your life with. The person that you love. The person that you love to "make love" to. Is it important to you that they are also your best friend? You know, ladies, the one you complain to everything about, the one that you sit down and gab to non-stop about everything that's going on with you and your life. Guys, for you, is she the one you take for a beer after a long day and talk to about your everything?

Let me hear what you guys think.
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I would say no, doesn't have to be. I have a few friends that I've known forever (since diapers) so we share a certain bond that only we can relate to sometimes. Although I feel you should be 'best' friends with your SO and I'm talking about the one for life, since you will carry a special bond that should last the rest of your lives.

Although this is coming from a single guy, so take it with a grain of salt.
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no, in general.....i should preface by saying i dont have one best friend, i have a bunch of close friends. i consider all of em my best friends

so, i cant see one person taking the place of a group of friends no matter how close we got.....closest i could see that scenario getting is to have a bestfriend (likely a dood) then wifey....cuz no matter how close we got and how much we shared, there is still gonna be a time when i gotta get away and talk to my dood. there are things i talk about wit my dood friends that no chick is gonna wanna hear....

there are just aspects of my personality that chicks wont embrace & there things I would just share with my doods.....i cant tell my chick about the fattest shit i just took or the chick at work with the fat ass!
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and one other thing, my best friend wouldnt ever fuck somebody else, divorce me and take half my money
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No. I don't think so. I think you need to be close and feel comfortable but I think intimate relationships have a higher chance of failure which would cause more pain than friends no longer speaking. I think it's easier to "break up" with a friend than a partner.
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Do you believe that your Significant Other also has to be your best friend?
I used to... but I guess that's because I had a significant other who *was* my best friend. Heck, after we broke up... she became my best friend again.

At this point in my life however, I don't believe that a S.O. has to be my best friend... I don't expect it.

I mean, your best friend is the person who you turn to when shit goes sour... how can you turn to your S.O. to discuss problems where she is the source of 'em?

It's impossible IMO.
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