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Default What Type of Person is the Most Likely to Cheat?

While the desire to cheat is a fundamental, and unconscious, part of our human nature, not everyone will be unfaithful.

Like most of our behaviors, infidelity is not intentional, but, for the most part, it is situationally driven.

When placed in the right situation (or wrong situation, in this case), our emotions can get can prompt us to act in ways which are counter to our beliefs. Please note that some of the factors listed below are drawn from Buss and Shackelford's work on infidelity.

What factors influence an individual's willingness to cheat?

Attractiveness


All things being equal, an individual’s attractiveness influences how likely he or she is to cheat. Attraction comes in many different forms – it is influenced by one’s physical appearance, one’s social skills, and one’s tangible resources (money). The more one is in demand, the more likely one is to cheat. People, who have higher incomes, more education, and successful careers, are more likely to cheat than people who are less successful. And physical attractiveness also plays an important role.


Opportunity



Again, all things being equal, the more individual free time people have the more likely they are to cheat. Couples who have separate social lives, friends, careers, travel plans, and so on are much more likely to cheat than couples who spend most of their time together. The more opportunity people have to cheat, the greater the odds that cheating will occur.


Risk Taking

People who like to take risks or have a sense of adventure are more likely to cheat than people who are more fearful or timid by nature. And there is most likely a genetic component involved in risk-taking behavior - some people may be predisposed to taking risks.


Sexual Desire

Sexual desire varies from person to person. Some people have a very high sex drive while other people are much less concerned or interested in sex. And people with a high, rather than low, sex drive are more likely to cheat. Again, sexual desire appears to be influenced by genetic factors. Some people are inherently more easily aroused and driven by their desire for sex than other people. People who have multiple affairs are often addicted to the novelty and excitement which infidelity can provide.


Attitude Toward Love and Romance
Attachment and Love Styles
Some people view love and romance as a sacred bond between two individuals. Other people see love as a game, where the goal is to manipulate another individual and gain emotional power over a partner. People who view love as a game are much more likely to have multiple love interests; cheating is just another way to gain control over one's spouse. Also, people with a dismissing style of attachment, are more likely to cheat.
Relational Problems

As problems emerge in a relationship, people are more likely to cheat. Infidelity is more common in relationships where people feel misunderstood, under appreciated and where fighting and bickering is common.Sense of Entitlement
Some people, due to their position in society, their beliefs about gender roles, or their cultural upbringing, believe that it is their right to cheat on their partners. In other words, some people believe that cheating is a privilege to which they are entitled. Such individuals, philanders, often engage in infidelity with little guilt or remorse.
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Someone sent me this article and I thought I'd share it with you guys.

Articles like these tend to send insecure people into tizzies trying to figure out if their partner is the "type of person most likely to cheat" based on what the articles say or whatever tests they have there. (Yes, there are some tests on the site to determine if your partner will cheat on you.)

But before I make all my comments, I'm gonna listen to what some of you guys have to say.
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I think the man that cheats is the one where his girlfriend is an unappreciative bitch. She doesnt give up the booty hardly enough and she runs her mouth to him in front of others regularly. That same unappreciative, disrespectful no ass giving bitch is gonna get cheated on. With a smile on the mans face. Payback of sorts. The revenge cheat, it may not be right but it feels great.
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Why not just leave her ass, KW?
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Its not always that easy.
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I would also consider family history. If a child saw a parent cheat, they may think A) it's acceptable or B) it destroyed my family, I would never do that.
Just throwing it out there.
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I don't see why people play these silly little infantile games.
She lies? Dump her
she cheats? Dump her
She is an unappreciative bitc#? dump her.

Excuses, excuses. Have some honour, respect for yourself and dignity.
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She lies..dump her

She cheats.. dump her

Shes an unappreciative bitch..express those feelings if you really love her and make her aware of it. Let her know not to do it again.If she is not willing to change then dump her.There is never an excuse to lie or cheat and any dude who puts up with it is a chump,but being unappreciative can be changed in some relationships.
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I think couples that one of the two looks like shit usually have an issue with this. If my wife looks hot and is fit as fit could be, but yet I'm a lard ass who can't even get it up, what should I expect eventually. That's just me though, but I find a couple who is fit together has much more sex together therefore keeping things hot and spicy for all parties.
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