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I had a very interesting convo with a male friend of mine the other day about love. First, he said that women recover from heartbreak faster than men (even if it doesn't seem that way becuz of the crying and venting). He said many men just hide their emotions and rebound with a new woman, all the while secretly pining for their ex.
Then, he said that if a man truly loves a woman, he will ALWAYS love her in some fashion, no matter how bad the relationship was or how much she horn (cheats on) him. It's just he chooses not to get back in that mess, even though he still holding a torch for her.

I try not to over-generalize but what do you guys think? Do you agree? Have any of you felt or observed this for yourself?
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It depends really... on the type of 'love' in question.

A lot stems on the type, as well as the individual's personality and affinity for extending outside themselves... i.e. their ability to connect with others on a spiritual level.

Me personally?

I believe that once you love someone, you always will.

The manifestation of that love, for me, may change... as the situation, and reality of one's place in life changes.

However, for me, it'll always be there.

I love all of my Exs...

A part of my heart/spirit will always be fragmented... having been replaced by theirs, as we've connected on that level.

I've never gotten into a relationship lightheartedly, so inevitably it leads to that place for me.

My exs and I generally remain good friends after break-ups.

re: type... I love my close friends.

I tell them that regularly as well.

Even if we aren't able to keep in contact regularly, that doesn't change.

So yea... for me, love does last 'forever'.

Like energy however, it moves from state to state.

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I think it is harder for males, I agree on that. Although, you may not be able to make a generalization about a whole gender from a few opinions.

I do think love lasts forever. If I were to see any of my ex'es...there is a level of comfort, ease, mixed feelings, and at time sexual tension that is hard to miss.
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I have only ever been in-love with one women. I have came to relies in an extended separation form her that I will always love her more than any other.
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agree with chester,musclescience...and nark too... depends on the level or degree of love, but its harder for men imo... without question i still love my ex -wife... does that mean i want to be with her again thou? not necessarily...but theres a part of me that will never be given to anyone else. different loves come at different times also...timing is everything in life & love...u may "miss" each other at one point in time, then "find" it again later with that same person.. if its true,real love-there is a part that will never die.
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Hmmm. Does love last forever? I suppose it could. The boyfriends that I've had that I've loved, yes i still love them. I don't particularly like a couple of them, but I love them. And I believe I always will.

I have very close friends whom I love, even when I hate them. And I'm sure I'll always love them too. There are some with home the friendship has changed drastically. Maybe we aren't even friends any more. But I still love them.

There are people though, who I have loved, but do not anymore. And I don't think I ever will again. Some people may say "Well, it wasn't real love then." Bull. The love was real. It was there. Now it's not.
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does that mean i want to be with her again thou? not necessarily...but theres a part of me that will never be given to anyone else.
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^^ Hmmm. I agree to a point, I suppose. I love people differently and for different reasons. Each relationship was different. Each relationship brought out different things in me and I shared different aspects of myself.. I guess...

It sounds like you guys are saying to the next girl you get with "Yea, I like you a lot, but you can't have my whole heart, because SHE still has a piece of it. Sorry. But here's what I have tho. So... yay?"

Am I misunderstanding?
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^^lol so at what point do you run outa heart?
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